Here at Reclaim Therapy, we are a group of eating disorder therapists and trauma specialists in Pennsylvania. As a trauma informed therapy practice, we understand how trauma has an ongoing and living impact on the mental, physical, relational, social, spiritual and emotional realms of the human experience.

We meet our clients with acceptance, curiosity, compassion and a genuine interest in them, and what they have experienced, as humans in the world.

We believe that it is a right for all people to resolve and heal from trauma they have experienced.

Two distinct components of CPTSD are:

1. Childhood attachment failure, even in the absence of other forms of mistreatment

2. Ongoing relational maltreatment like neglect, verbal, emotional, sexual or physical abuse. 

Outside of childhood experiences, CPTSD is also seen as a result of imprisonment, sex trafficking, torture or being exposed to long term conflict.

According to the CDC, close to 60% of adults in the United States have experienced at least one ACE, and nearly 1 in 6 adults has experienced 4 or more. The effects of ACEs are not limited to living through trauma in childhood, but often last into adulthood. Studies show that experiencing ACEs impacts a person’s physical and mental health, behavior, and social functioning.

Recently, I attended a trunk show for a well-known clothing brand that specializes in inclusive sizing.

I was excited to get to know the brand better and looked forward to supporting their efforts. I invited along a friend, and we headed into Philly for a session with our very own stylist…or so we thought.

In this blog we talk about why self-compassion is so important in eating disorder recovery and recovery from trauma. We have included a self-compassion assessment developed by researcher Kristin Neff and a scoring guide to guage how self-compassionate you are. This isn’t meant for you to judge yourself, but instead an invitation into developing into the skill of self-compassion.

At times you probably feel like things are going ok, that things are feeling a bit lighter, a less urgent, a little less impulsive to dive headfirst into eating disorder urges.

And other days it probably feels like you’re at the bottom of an epically steep mountain that is recovery.

Relapses in eating disorder recovery happen. 

And, they can be opportunities to grow in your recovery process. 

Diet culture is everywhere. When you start learning about diet culture, how far it reaches and permeates your everyday life, you’ll also start to recognize sneaky ways that it shows up in everyday conversations or in everyday activities.

Here are some common examples of how diet culture could be showing up in your everyday:

If you’re experiencing some ambivalence when it comes to starting, or resuming, your recovery from your eating disorder, we want you know that we get it. And, you undeniably deserve a life that free from exhausting behaviors, shame and anxiety spirals and a disconnected experience of your body.

Starting therapy for your eating disorder is brave. And after working with countless clients who are in recovery, we want you to know what we believe to be the top benefits of receiving therapy for your eating disorder.

Moving our bodes is something the team at Reclaim talks about all the time in the therapy room.

How to understand and dig into intentions for movement.

When to take a break from movement.

How to reincorporate movement into life when there’s pockets of readiness.

And, how to navigate a new relationship with movement- one that isn’t punishing, rigid or compulsive. 

Sarah, how do I stop emotionally eating?

this is a question we received from one of our blog readers recently. 

You know my instinctual response? 

Don’t.

Don’t stop emotionally eating.

Deep breath.Hang with me for a minute, so I can explain.

Quite a few years ago, I saw Food Network chef and host Alton Brown perform at a local food and wine festival. Fully expecting a high-brow demonstration of how to cook some complicated culinary cuisine, I was instead surprised, and a bit disappointed, to hear him wax poetic about the art of making the perfect omelet. An omelet? Dude…seriously? WTF?

Despite my irritation, I didn’t leave. Instead, I listened and watched as Alton revealed his proven process to achieve breakfast bliss:

Binging, emotionally eating, and overeating are all terms you have likely heard of and probably even used to describe your own eating habits at times. Often, these terms are used interchangeably, and while they share some similarities, they are all different, and it can be helpful to know and understand these differences as you work to redefine your relationship with food.

Urge surfing is a coping strategy that can be used to avoid engaging in a specific behavior that you want to stop or reduce. Here at Reclaim, we like to teach urge surfing when folks can acknowledge that they are feeling compelled to engage in a particular behavior.

People struggling with BDD might see themselves as ugly, think about what they perceive as flaws for hours each day, miss work, school or activities because they don’t want to be with people, avoid spending time with people they care about, use surgical means in attempt to “improve” their appearance and experience significant emotional distress and self harming behaviors.

Body checking can be described as a habitual or an often impulsive behavior that involves the assessment of a body’s shape, size, appearance or weight. Body checking is often a symptom of disordered eating and is most definitely a symptom of experiencing some degree of body shame.

I know for me, it's all too easy to get lost in the busyness of life. Mom'ing. Therapist'ing. Partner'ign. Friend'ing. Business owning. Trying to get through the day'ing.

With all the noise, all of the tasks, all of the mental and physical energy that's pouring out of my very being... at times it's a bit scary to come back, and show up for me. To show up for what is. To show up for the needs that are going unmet.

To refill my own damn cup.

It's scary because it's vulnerable.

It's scary because it's connected.

At times it's scary because to show up for yourself, like to really show up for yourself, can feel like an invitation to respond to yourself differently- like speaking a new language.